A letter To Her!!!

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To Her,

I have never had the opportunity to address you directly, nor do I want to but as I sit here reflecting on the past….the hurt, the deception, the treachery, the embarrassment, the shame and the suicide attempt. I don’t think you really understand the magnitude of your actions…you deliberately set out to destroy my life, my family. You came into my life weaving your way into the fabric, pretending to be an ally when all the time working your scheme from within. I never would have thought it would be you!

I am over the hurt, but still greatly disappointed. No, not because we had a close friendship, but because I’ve always believed there is a moral code between all women, one that we were born with. As much as we may try to silence it or ignore it — it’s still there. I’m not solely blaming you for what happened because I truly believe it would have occurred sooner or later in some form or another but you do have a responsibility.

There have been so many tears and so much pain from not only myself and my children, but the people in our lives that love us. You need to understand that your actions have caused a ripple effect and hurt a lot of people.

Please understand, I am not writing this because I hate you, I’m past that emotion but I hope that in the future, if the moment presents itself where you encounter a taken man, that you realize you have the power to choose whether you want to be a part of destroying someone’s life, or not. Your decisions define you and I hope, for the sake of other women and their families, that you make a better one next time.

Sincerely,

The Woman You Betrayed

 

*This letter is not only written for myself but All the Women who have had a encounter with “Her” or will have a encounter with “Her”.*

 

 

 

 

 

 

8 thoughts on “A letter To Her!!!”

  1. I ‘m so sorry that this happened I’m praying for continued healing for you and your family, on so many levels I’ve wanted to talk to you. But wasn’t sure if the conversation would be receptive so I stayed silent until the opportunity presents itself. I’m a positive person, wasn’t always like everything it was an process to get at this state of mind and pray real hard to stay here. One day I hope to be able to tell my story to you and maybe I can be of some help to couples, and women married or single looking for relationships and staying in relationships after hurting actions or words .

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  2. Well said, it’s very selfish to do something like this to anyone. I am happy your happy but I know your life has changed forever and what was supposed to be a lifetime will never be. But God, He will see you through every step. Love you!

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  4. Ms. Traci, I have always known you to be a strong woman of God and you have confirmed that I was never wrong. The one thing that would kill most women, made you even stronger. You, my beautiful First Lady, will always and forever be just that, a First Lady. Through everything, pain, tears, anger, embarrassment, and even hate, you remained who God made you to be, Traci “First Lady” Adams!!! A wiman of strength, ciutage and love!!! Love you Traci, and I am so blessed ti have met you.

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    • Too God be all the Glory Deidra. What was meant for bad, God has turned it around for my good and I am forever grateful. Although it ended is shame and pain..My journey to Omaha brought some wonderful people into my like yourself and for that I am Thankful. I love you & you are forever in my prayers. 🙏🏽❤️

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