“Confess your fault’s one to another, and pray for one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.” ~ James 5:16 KJV
In order to Truly be Set Free, Healed, Forgiven & Move on, one must acknowledge & accept responsibility for “their part” in the circumstances that occurred in their life. This post in no way negates the responsibility of other’s involved, I’m just Owning What’s Mine! So, here is my confessional:
I accept responsibility for not taking responsibility for Myself. My Life will Never again be in anyone else’s hand Except for God & Mine. Going Against everything my Nana ever taught me, I allowed myself to totally Emotionally, Mentally & Financially dependent on someone else…..I Own That!
I accept responsibility for detaching from my family. In the words of my cousin, When I got married, I became a Adams & forgot about the Caver’s & the Blassingame’s, TRUE! So now it’s my responsibility to pursue reconciliation….I Own That!!
I accept responsibility for not acknowledging the people who were really supporting & praying for me while I was in the “eye of the storm”. I allowed myself to be alienated by the words of others to think “everyone” was the enemy (alienation is a great tactic of the enemy). It is my responsibility to extend the “olive branch” of reconciliation…..I Own That!!
I accept responsibility for allowing my life to spin out of control. I knew God’s instructions for my life and lived it until I reached my late 30’s. I then, willfully chose to start living a life contrary to God’s will & l enjoyed it. I did not heed God’s warning & destruction soon followed…..I Own That!
I accept responsibility for allowing my family to be infected & affected. I was always very careful & protective about who I allowed into my circle but I allowed an “entity” in enter my life, my family & my home. I now know that their motive from the onset was to steal, kill & destroy. I ignored the warning from God, words from others and the nagging in the pit of my stomach, so instead of entertaining a Angel, I befriended a wolf in sheep’s clothing…..I Own That!
I accept responsibility for not covering & protecting my spouse. I allowed him to be open for the attack of the enemy by allowing my own Issues, Pain & Frustrations to distract me. I left space for someone else (who had perfectly positioned themself) to become his cheerleader, his supporter, his encourager & his confidant…..I Own That!
I accept responsibility for my words written and spoken. They are not to dis-credit anyone else nor defend or validate myself. This is My Journey, in My Words & I Own Them!
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Great Word for all of us!!!!
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Thank You for recognizing this gift in me.
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Thank you for sharing, so many times a lot happens in our life we could have prevented but when it happens we must accept our own responsibility instead of blaming others. You are such a inspiration to women everywhere. Keep on teaching.
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Thank You Sis. Carolyn.
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Sis Traci I love, appreciate, & respect your words!!! There are so many women who have been through it’s how you come out that matters!!! Again THANK YOU for all of your encouraging words!!! You will always be my first lady!
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Thank You & Love You more Zelany.
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Thank you for inspiring me and encouraging me to continue to own my stuff. I pray that others find their peace and voice through your words. I love you so…
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I love you more My Friend.
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MAN O MAN ITS HARD TO BE HONEST WITH ONE.SELF 4REAL !! Get that happyiness man o man P/T
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It’s the only way to freedom Kelz….REALITY! Thank You my Friend!
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Wow! All I can say is God is not done with you yet! You have so much to give. You have blessed so many people by what you have said and done. I love you beautiful! Keep your head up! Your days will be brighter.
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Thanks Pud. Luv you more.
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Great lesson for us all. Good entry ❤️
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Yes Luv…..Life Lessons!!
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Very profound words but encouraging to move on and forgive. Love you Lady
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Thank you for your comment Annetta. You Truly inspire me. Luv You!
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Traci…Wow! Taking the mirror and looking at oneself can be difficult but at the same time it’s so necessary for ones own personal growth & healing!
Well written my friend! May your blog inspire others to begin being more reflective and to begin taking responsibility for their lot in life.
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Thank You Di.
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Great post, taking ownership of our issues leads to our maturity growing in faith and God’s word is that which sustains us through the growing pains. When we begin taking ownership and accountability to do what God has commanded and ordained us to do we grow. I thank God for your journey and your growth, you are a mighty women of God and I’m grateful to have you in my covenant circle.
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