If a person wanted to date you, what would be a No-Go???

1: If they are married. I don’t care if they have been separated for 100 years, if they have not dissolved that relationship…THEY ARE STILL MARRIED. This displays a lack of respect for myself & others involved and a total disregard for the sanctity of marriage, which I “whole-heartedly” believe in.

2: If they have approached (tried to talk to), been in or still in any type of romantic relationship with my family or friends. I don’t care how long ago yall broke-up, I don’t cross that line. That’s Family/Friend code of ethic #101.
This displays no self control, low character, lack of integrity and total disrespect to myself & others involved.

3: If they are having problems with their ex-wife, ex-significant other or child/children s mother, I don’t need nor want those type of problems. I can’t control the actions of others but I can control mine & I don’t want No Extra Exterior Drama….Period!!!

4: If they are not Self Sufficient, Independent & Mature. I am 51 years old, I work 10-12 hours a day to take care of me & mine.
Self Sufficient = At least has to able to at least pay “his” own way because I can certainly pay mine.
Independent = Have his OWN (legal) source of income and his own stuff..house or apartment & car.
Mature = be able to have a mature conversation. I don’t listen to rap, I don’t “club” & I don’t hang out with children (mine are 24 & 26). I go to stepping sets, adult only (Over 35) events, movies, dinner, walks on the beach, etc..

5: If they smoke…..I can’t do smoke of any kind.